Sagacity Voyage

Breaking up from a bad relationship,  Moving out from an abusive marriage, Relieving from a suffocating job, Freeing yourself from an addiction, are the endings worth celebrating!

 Your understanding of the truth would be different than my understanding of the truth. We both are right, since the understanding is subjective. Accepting each other's view point will lead expanding our horizons, resulting in discussion. But if I try to prove my truth is the truth and you prove your truth is the truth,  it will result into argument. So let's appreciate and respect other's view points to have more of discussions and less of arguments.

 She got attracted with his charm, Loving someone was no harm. With him,she felt like a fairy and on clouds, Totally unaware of his inner doubts She loved him like a lover,  He loved her like a friend. Bcoz,  he loved 'him' like a lover!

 She kept craving for fair and glowy skin These are the must haves in a girl was told by her kin She was introduced to facials, creams and skin treatments  Nobody thought about her sentiments She was looked down for the color of her skin, defined as dull, dark and damage  No one told her the real power lies in  the color of confidence, self belief and courage 

Don't barter freedom and respect for roses and chocolates!

 There are no more surprise visits now, don't know when surprises got replaced with shock.  Ab to apne bhi bina appointment ke nai milte.  Priorities are changing , so are the relations. Best relationship is the  one with self!  

 Yesterday while chatting with my sweetheart @           ,she said something which kept me thinking. I was telling her that she has magic in her hands that results in such beautiful art. There she mentioned, how tough it is to clean all the mess later.And I realized all beautiful things leaves mess behind. While we appreciate the final results  but it all comes with lots of unseen hardwork behind.  The yummiest looking dishes leaves a lot to handle in kitchen later, that perfect makeup and style leaves a lot to be arranged again,  the beautiful thoughts and stories comes from the messy situations around, Henceforth let's acknowledge the mess around,  be grateful for it gave you  beauty. This post is dedicated to...... 

 Anecdote from my personal life and experience: When I and my husband  went on our first vacation in Malaysia , we did not know much about each other. I am really foodie,  I like to eat and explore variety of food. I wanted to try local delicacies and variety available their. But whenever I asked my husband,  he would say he does not want to eat and I should go ahead.  And I really used to get offended on this part that why does he keeps saying No, why can't he just try new stuff. Is he boring , miser, irritating and what not. This all used to lead to irritation,  frustration eventually spoiling the mood and time.   But on our second, third and so on trips he  became my partner is enjoying the local delicacies of the places we have gone.Now the same person was not saying no but instead himself trying and enjoying. Probably then he did not have interest in eating the stuff in foreign land,  and was apprehensive of the food their, or may b...

 They judge you with what you wear  and the materialistic stuff  you possess And not by the values and wisdom you possess.  Somewhere materialistic richness snobbed while the wisdom richness humbled.

They say 'Life is like an Ice-cream,  enjoy it before it melts' But what if I say -Freeze it and enjoy again.  You have been out of track- It's OK - be on track again.  You held high position in corporate once - It's OK-restart again  You had a good relationship once-It's OK- build it again. You can always restart, refresh and rebuild!  

 That feeling of being overwhelmed: Take a break! Have a Drink,   Nachos,  Pizza and Brownie PS- replace the above with whatever you want, the message is just to chill. These feelings are temporary :)

 Why are we so apprehensive of Asking something. If you need something ask for it.  You may get Yes or No as answer,  but you will get something.Not asking is a definite NO. I have seen people struggling at work but will not approach and ask for help.  Wives managing home, work,  kids not asking for help from partner considering can't they feel or see.  No they don't, you ask for it and reduce your burden.  No,  asking a help or favor will not have any impact on your self respect or ego instead you will be in peace because you will have solution to the problem you were struggling with alone. 'Puchne Mai kya jata hai' mana kardega na,which means you will not go worse but will remain in same situation. But Asking will help you putting in a better situation.

 If you  are finding difficulty in picking that new habbit or want to get rid of any unproductive habit. If you want to bring any change in your eating habits or having tough times to start your fitness journey.If you have loads of work to do say laundry, dusting,  kitchen etc.  Don't get overwhelmed, just Shrink the Change. Example:  1)I will not have any sweets this week or I will have two spoons instead of a bowl. 2)I will take 30 days fitness challenge or 10 min HIT or 500 steps  or anything that suits you  3) I will do dusting of one room along with laundry  4) I will invest 20 minutes in my hobby/something I love  5) I will read/paint/craft/bake one day per week.  You just need to take that one step and build on it. Don't look for doing everything together. Give your self small tasks, complete them and reward yourself.   

 It is more often Situation Problem. If you want to change something, change the situation. You have tendency to eat the entire pack of chips once opened, change the situation, open the small pack. You have been thinking your spouse is lazy,  but think is he lazy when he is completing his office commitment, is he lazy when he is palying or surfing on mobile, probably you tasked him with something that is boring for him, Change the situation,  task him with something that is interesting. Similarly If you are not able to control your impulsive reaction, change the situation,  move out from the scene. So next time give a pause and see if you can change the situation. It will definitely be a win- win for  all.