Sagacity Voyage

 Birth of child may be the reason for your marriage, But don't make it the reason to sustain your marriage. Don't let parenting overshadow your relation!

Your clothes, house, lifestyle doesn't define you, Your approach, mindset, and demeanor do.

It works wonders for me. I am an over-thinker and an over-analyzer. As suggested by many, I tried meditation, but always failed. I could hardly concentrate or close my eyes for few minutes. A few months back, during my official travel, I found myself in the most confusing mental state, where I was overanalyzing things, disturbing my mental peace, and increasing my anxiety, I spoke to my friends but still, I kept creating a complex web of my thoughts. Sitting alone in a hotel room, around midnight, I found this magic, I picked up a pen and notepad, and started writing whatever was coming to my mind. I was putting down every single thought, every single emotion, raising questions, answering them, as if I was talking to someone who understands the situation completely. The unstructured thoughts suddenly started getting structured, confusions were turning into clarity, anxiety into peace. I found my way of meditation. Since then, whenever I found myself in such a place, I pick my pen and s...

 Hold that urge, The urge of reacting when you are going through confused emotions, The urge of reacting when you are going through angry emotions, The urge that will take you to a guilt trip later. Just hold on and pass that moment. Most of the times we react on things that requires no reaction.

Does every problem has a solution? Or  We adjust, adapt, compromise and create a space where problem and solution co-exist.

Vo taaron pe kapre sookhte dekh,gali wale dhobi bhaiya ko khushi to hoti hogi. Vo sabji wale bhaiya ki awaz sunkar, gate se bhag kar kisi ko aate dekh, bhaiya ko khushi to hoti hogi. Vo khali makan par naye parivar ko aate dekh, kaam karne wali didi ko khushi to hoti hogi. Vo chai ki tapri se meeting mai jane walo ke dhool wale joote dekh, mochi bhaiya ko khushi to hoti hogi. Yunhi to ek doosre se joodi hai hum sab ki khushiyan. 

You want to play with kitchen set! Are you a girl.  Why are you crying ? Are you a girl! You make roti? Are you a girl! Such statements are commonly made, when a boy wants to play with any such toy or does any thing which is tagged as girl's stuff. Why are we still living under these preconceived gender biases?  My son plays with kitchen set, I buy for him.He helps me in kitchen, folds his clothes and much more. There is no particular color, game, toy or any stuff assosiated with any gender at my home. Let the kids be kids and not a boy or a girl. Let them explore and make their choices. They are children and know only to play, don't put them under your gender lens.