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Mistakes

 I read somehwere it is no sense to keep digging into the mistake already done.Instead talking about future course puts you in correction mode.   I had practical experience of this some times back. My 4 years old in  fight with his father shrieked and shouted some slang words in anger. After a while, as per normal process, we started the CID process, where did you learn this? Why did you say this? Did you see some video? How can you say this?  He was all quite and not responding at all. No exprrssion at all. I changed the track and said, OK! we are not getting into from where you picked and why you said. Promise you will never say anything of this sort again. He promised! He responded! There was a change in expression, a positive one. At times,digging into things doesnot help, set the future action. Try it :)

Welcome the inputs

Any advise or suggestion will either add value or leave you in the same position. If not adding, will not be lessening either. Welcome them with all your heart

Fear

Fear is often used as powerful emotion in advertising world. We buy products and take many decisions out of fear. Take a pause, and think how many products we buy just out of fear? Interestingly fear also helps in inculcating good habits in us. I never noticed this until my son showed me a demo. I have been asking my to son to brush his teeth before sleeping, he used to make big deal, throw tantrums etc.  One day he felt pain after eating chocolate, I took an opportunity and told him probably you don't brush at night.  Since that day, even if I skip,  he remembers to brush. Fear of going to dentist and injection worked. Then I realized Fear is not only a positive emotion in advertising world,  it plays a vital role in shaping our life,  developing integrity and ethics. 

Let the things unfold

 At times, you only need to do is let the things unfold with the time. Believe in what you are doing and keep doing!

Place you are

While you are not contented for where you are, there are many who desire to be at your place.

A msg to all moms

Dear Moms If after a hectic day at work or house, you know you have to spend time with your kid for homework or play or anything.  But,  you don't feel like instead you want to go out for a walk, you want to watch television or stalk mobile or anything. Please do it.  It's okay. Don't let that guilt creep in,  'I was already busy whole day and now again I need time for self'.  Whatever you have been doing entire day was not your self time. You deserve that one hour or so of quality time with self.  This mom guilt is bad,  it can come anytime without knocking. It just keeps on looking for an opportunity to be with you.  Keep it away!  Regards Fellow mom

Women's Day

 Happy Women's Day to all the beautiful women there!  Let's encourage, support, inspire and admire each other. Let's not discourage ,judge, demean and envy. We need to make a happy world for each other!